Ok, last night, I mulled things over and over and over....I decided not to say anything about the ring thing....H was so nervous, I figured he knew darn good and well what my take on the sitch was, AND he gets so angry and reactive to what he perceives as "hawkeyeing" him that it really sets us back....so I let it go, welcomed him home warmly, and spent time just "listening" to his work frustrations...
I havent sabotaged the lotion bottle YET, but I fully intend to ...somethings are just too much for me to resist!!!! But I have to say, I did notice the bottle HASN'T been moved from the way I positioned it...I would be able to tell because it is on a very dusty shelf, and the dust was undisturbed; there's so much dust it wouldn't be possible to move the bottle and not have it show....
I had a moment of panic last night though as I was pondering what it is that keeps H from getting rid of OW...I thinking about our screwed up finances, the thought entered my mind that I wondered if H would have co-signed on OW's mortgage for her house, and now she has that to hold over him??????Would that have shown up when we purchased his vehicle this past spring????? I've also wondered if she doesnt threaten him with "exposure" or even a sexual harrassment charge at work....I think I could help him with the last one, since I have a couple of letters she wrote......hmmmmmm....worrisome thoughts about HIS mess.....
