Oh, Pam, have you not seen the crown I was awarded as the "Queen of Crazymaking" ?
I know I am absolutely at the head of the class in that department!
Your question about changes in place with NO backslides was interesting....I was thinking a month, since my emotional eruption on vacation, then I decided in honest I'd have to say since last Saturday....I think it was kind of a back slide to say ANYTHING about him wearing his ring...even though all I said was that I liked it when he did.....hmmmm, so is that thought that backslides set things back more and add to his hesitancy to rid himself of OW? duh, yeah, that would be so, wouldnt it?
I think maybe I need to write down and print off S11's observation about this getting through this being like an ice cube tray in the freezer, that you can put it in and close the door and it will freeze, you can put it in and keep opening the door to check on it and it will still freeze but it will take longer because it has to almost start over each time....
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