that is totally my H's deal too... that he is afraid that our R will go back to being what it was which was good most days, fair some days, but hardly great

and the whole thing was a huge huge issue for him

what make OW go away...maybe just time, but whatever it is, it is inside of our H's and not something we can do for them

My C has shared some Bible verses with me that have given me the strength to go on some days. I may copy them down and use them at the beginning of my new thread