Good, Good Job, Pamila!!!!! I think that's just what I needed to hear....you are absolutely 125% correct....I wouldnt gain a darned thing and I can pretty much bet I'd wish later I hadnt done it.....
I just have trouble understanding why he doesnt call it off.....He's told me before he's afraid it will go back to like it was before...I just wonder WHAT and HOW LONG it will take for him to get it through his thick skull that it WONT....GRRRRRRR
I have to believe his feelings of guilt have a part in his not ending it also...
