Hey Pam! no need to apologize about the "ring comments" ....frankly I know you were right, I can grasp on to the tiniest straws and become obsessed with them.... I found it suspicious not just that "Mr. Slick" has lotion in the garage....but that it happens to be the "cherry almond" scented stuff from the bathroom.
I'm pretty sure my suspicions are accurate....damn, being right all the time can be real hell! I will post about that in a minute....I'm going to need some help deciding what to do next....