Now I get it.

You are right, there is not much in our messes that is as innocent as it seems.

Quite a "coincidence" that he has lotion in the garage. I am sorry that I gave you heck about the ring that one day. I was probably just feeling jealous that your H was even wearing his ring. I am also envious of all that that you are getting. You go girl

I am anxiously awaiting the day that our marital relations improve in that dept. Prob won't happen until H moves back. There is someone on the board that isn't getting any nookie from her H, even though they are no longer sep, but I can't remember who it is.