Hi Pam....You didn't miss much with the lotion story....I just found a bottle of it this weekend in the garage, I think from the downstairs bath, and became suspicious because of his comment saturday about needing to use lotion to get his ring on....could be perfectly innocent (hah, yeah, like anything is in this mess) but it also occured to me that he could be taking his ring (I know, more than enough already) on and off depending on whether he's around OW or me by using it, and so he just happens to have it in a handy location......Obviously, I'm not only devious, I'm suspicious as all get out!!!!!