oh, TC, I love it, you she-devil.....a woman after my own heart, hehehehehehe
I have to confess, clear back in probably Nov., just after I found out about the A, I went to get something from H's vehicle or put something in, at his request, and I found a photo of OW and a note from her.....hmmmmmmm.....those darn things just disappeared....I was curious for a long time whether or not he would say anything about them, but he never did. I didn't think he's have the nerve to bring them up....
I'll have to keep the disappearing special clothes in mind...
Oh, last winter, I did have a tradition of making chili for lunch on Saturdays when I suspected he was going to see OW...seemed like a good thing to do since a)H has a very sensitive tummy and gets a lot of fireworks type of effects quite easily. and b) S had told me how upset OW got w/burps/gas when they were at the lake once....so, putting 2 & 2 together gave a recipe for "fire" I jus couldnt resist.....must have worked, H started requesting something bland for lunch....so a switched to another favorite...tacos....hehehehehhe