thanks Honeya and TC, I'm still riding the fence here, so havent done anything yet.....The reason I wouldnt email him is multi-tiered: I was REAL available all weekend (and we had a great time) and I would like for him to get a taste of missing me just a little; mystery....let him wonder why I havent emailed him; and he's probably email OW....let her get in a good a$$chewing while he avoids me, then I can be the nice one with supper ready and a sexy top when he gets home tonight; he doesnt like it when I don't respond to his emails
Reasons I would email him: to say "hi" because I like him and like to do it; he likes it; to build anticipation for possibilities for tonight; to be a contrast to the a$$chewing I'm hoping he's getting from OW....

so there you have it, equal number of equally good reasons for doing it or not doing it. I guess one more reason NOT to email him is it would be a 180 -- I usually do if I don't hear from him...

hmmmmm, since I cant decide what to do, I guess I'll follow the advice of wise db'ers and doing nothing while I cant make up my mind...........

frankly, lots of over the weekend makes me in the mood for more tonight.....hmmmmmmm.....although I need to be concentrating on a "financial game plan" over the lunch hour, and not on

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