This is hard and weird, TC....but it is exactly how he's acted when they've broken up before....she is such a manipulator, she dumps him and then takes him back, and he's evidently dumb enough to fall for it....sheesh. H told me just before we left on vacation, when I had a conniption after finding pics of them in "our" vacation spot, that she had told him to decide, no more "part time" stuff....that was just over a month ago....I've been pretty much ignoring it all successfully, other than my "losing it" episode on vacation, brought on by being in the same cabin "they" were in last fall....... I don't know, I have to say I think I'm handling things differently than H or OW would have expected.... before we left on vacation, when I found out we would likely be in "that" cabin, someone on the BB suggested "getting my moneys worth out of that bed!"....and I did just that!!!!!! and, H is still talking about what a great vacation this years was. My guess is both he and OW would have predicted I'd have been blown away and wiped out by that cabin.....nope, managed to have a great time for the most part myself.
