hi dfb...you are so right about concerns that youngsters will think that cheating is acceptable....I have to say that I believe that is not the case and never will be with S....S has this incredibly "overdeveloped" sense of morality and of social justice (he's a gifted kid, and this is a characteristic of such that fits him to a "T"). I believe he will never see it as acceptable, poor kid even sighed one time and said "Well, at least I know WHAT NOT TO DO when I get married" in reference to the A. One of my biggest concerns has been the anger towards his dad....I truely believe he will sever ties w/his dad if the OW wins, and I'm not sure that will be in his best interest. But I've decided to "butt out", that dealing with his relationship with his children is something H must do for himself....I told him as much back around the first of the year, and I've done a good job of staying out of it, if I do say so myself.