yes, dfb, it breaks my heart for S....he loves his dad soooo much (as all kids do) and is such an incredibly bright and intiuitive kid, that he picks up on way too much. His dad used to do a lot of things with him before OW, now.....H is often pretty distant. I know that angers S and that he used to worry that he did something wrong. I've talked with him a lot about it not being his fault, and I think he has pretty come to see that. I am glad SIL is around now, and he does things w/S. D will be back in a month and they are close, so that will help too. I just wish this crap would get resolved and done with already
