Hi dfb! I believe this is the 1st and only OW. Frankly, if I find out differently, all deals are off. When I talk about splits, what I mean is he and the b---h break up and then reconnect over and over again adnauseum.
Some days I handle it ok by distancing myself and keeping busy, Some days he is loving and attentive and things really are better than they have been in ages, and other days, I am at wits end and just want to throw up my hands and say the hell with it....I guess I'm kind of on that page today, but I've always come back from there before, Frankly because H seems to manage to do something to pull his fat out of the fire in the nick of time!
