I'm just so sick of all this today, probably because I'm just plain tired, I know I didnt go to sleep until after 3:30 AM.....
Finances have become an issue suddenly, we've been having overdrafts every 2 weeks since D's wedding, I've been back through bank statements for several months and cant' figure out what the deal is....We've depleted saving to 0, literally, between wedding, college, summer child care, a change in pay periods at work last summer, and H's new vehicle...
I've always been the one to figure out a way to make the finances float, and obviously I havent been on top of it well with all this other stuff going on...when I balanced the ckbook last night, it looks like me may hit the red before payday again, and we had a letter from the bank when I got home last night saying they had noticed the recent OD's and did we need to refinance the house....???? we've banked there for 20 years and I don't think we've had ANY od's in the last 10 until the last month and 1/2. I have a credit card that I let get all screwed up in the last 6 months, and that does contribute to problems. maybe we should refinance.
H keeps saying "I don't understand how this is happening"....Of course he doesnt, he hasnt balanced or reconciled a checkbook or done a budget in all the years I've known him.....I guess it gives him one more weapon for his arsenal of reasons why he should leave.... Of course the silver lining might be that the sucker cant afford a divorce if he decides he wants one, and he sure cant afford to maintain 2 places right now.... hmmmmmm....If he whines to OW about it, it might dampen her interest in him as a sugar daddy, do you suppose?
