Ok, trying to get links to work, my old sloppy way didn't even seem to function above for some reason, so here goes again---Link to previous thread, "Morphing into a Red Hot Momma 7" here (I hope!):
http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=740706&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1

been around awhile!