MM... I still haven't used the humor; I haven't been doing so great lately. I have been confronting him on neeeding more sexual intimacy to feel connected, and he has responded, but something is missing. I hate having to ask...he puts me in this position to push him, and even though there is no attitude, there's no spontaneous enthusiasm either. Last nite he said to me, "What night is it when I just get to go to sleep...I'm exhausted?" and I just had no empathy for him. I told him any night he can just go to sleep but that his actions will affect my level of connection to him and that makes me lose my spirit. I said I don't know what the consequences of that will be, but one thing I know for sure that at this stage of my life, I know too much to sell myself out. He then reached for me, and it started to rain, and he said how cozy this was, how he looks forward to these moments,etc. ( In other words, I jump-started him for the moment). Anyway, back to the humor thing, yeah I'd love to use it but I am in this serious place right now.
