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"We really need to talk about making love both in and out of bed. I know I've forgotten, but my Palm has been reminding me of it for the last six months."





Hi Jake...I really like your approach with a sense of humor...I try to use that myself with my LDH. One piece of advice though...I might try staying away from using references like the one you have above. When I have tried a similar approach it's backfired on me and I've come to realize why...I think to the LD person it comes off as an intentional/unintentional guilt trip which simply puts them back on the defensive and increases the anxiety they experience. Hope that makes sense.

Having a sense of humor about the situation does help IMO, it can quickly diffuse a situation if necessary while also keeping the topic on track...but if not careful it can also cause complications. Best of luck!!!

Anita


Well behaved women rarely ever make history!