I encourage you to let him have this space. Sometimes what we fear is what we need the most. Space is a wonderful gift... it allows for clear thinking and fosters a path that is free of resentment, because of the very nature of the gift.
Just imagine how you would feel if you asked him to take the kids for a few days so you could be alone in your house to do as you wished. Wouldn't you appreciate it if he was happy and willing to give you what you want and need?
Everyone deserves a little time to recharge the batteries without feeling guilty for needing time and space. That includes you, sweetie. And if you guys can get this down now, you have the potential of having a wonderfully giving M from here on out.
Hugs, Kristy!
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
Betsey 