Okay I decided to start Again. Below is a link to my first thread on here. I'm not sure if I did it right.. but I gave it a try. Moving Forward
M 25 H 26 Married 6 years, together 12. Two boys 2 and 4
We are putting it back together and I decided "Keeping it Simple" was an appropriate title. This weekend I go away for my "ME weekend" I'm very happy about this. H and I have started a ritual together. Every morning we are getting up at 6, and hour and a half before he has to leave for work and usually before the little ones wake up. We get up and shower together and then we have coffee and snuggle on the couch and the past few days watch news together. It is helping us to feel connected. During this time I do not bring up any issues. I do not initiate any R talk. This time is just for connecting without having to force it. It's not that hard because most of my R talks tend to want to come out at night. "keeping it simple" is not easy. I am a complicated attention seeking gal.. but I have had to accept that the world does not revolve around me... quite an eye opener since I joined here. Journaling here helps me to maintain the "keeping it simple" and I also purchased a journal to write in when I am away from the computer. Hoping for a weekend full of calmness and reflecting. DB'ing has helped my marriage A LOT. My hubby seems more interested in me, and although he is still going through his "I dont know" phases i know that all I can do is continue along this path and "keep it simple"
Thanks for all the support.. and i look forward to more growth through continued conversations on here!!
