In the beginning of my S I snooped on my W. Didn't cause me anything but pain. But now, I really only check 2 things any time I have the opportunity (i.e., I am invited) to visit the house: 1. Does my key still fit the lock? 2. Is the picture of the 2 of us still on the fireplace mantle?
If #1 is true, I'm still at least being trusted. If #2 is true, there is still the chance of 'feelings'.
At least, that's how I choose to look at things. Your mileage may vary.
I guess my point is, look at a few things you'd consider to be positives if they happen / don't happen / don't change, as your sitch dictates
I'll be back to revisit this post later, I have a meeting to attend
