Thanks Jim.
I ended up casually asking H about his password. He said he didn't think it was fair that I have access to his email. At first, I had a hard time w/it. I asked why he showed me that the movie listings are on his home page, and cartoons, and what does he have to hide. He said he has convo's that I don't need to read. I said I didn't read them...etc. Then I agreed. I also brought up that fact that we could both be computer savvy-that I don't want to go around this vicious circle where I spy more, he deletes more, etc.

Sat. I got a little upset, we talked about it, and moved on. (I think). Sunday I didn't see him for v long as we both were gone all day until 6ish, we went to din, and he started to feel sick. Last night I climbed with my friends, came home early (before 10) and he was just watching tv. I told him I was going to bed. He said, "already? It's early." I said, "I'm tired. Come smuggle me soon." No, it's not a typo, I really called it that.

I've been feeling unDB-like, but have kept it at bay by not opening my big mouth. I feel like harping, but what's the saying??? Insanity=doing the same thing over and over and expecting diff. results. I know I have to be cool. I have just been having a bad attitude thinking that he's not giving me what I want and that he never will, etc. Obviously, that won't get me anywhere and it is not selfLESS.

I got my review at work today. I did not get promoted as I hoped. (Same position for over 4 1/2 years). & I got a 2.96% raise. Supposedly, that is the standard right now, however, .08% of that will be going towards my raise in insurance cost. I am SERIOUSLY going to look for a new job. It will be hard...I know...but, it's gotta happen. I am not getting anywhere at my job and only getting more and more resentful of others getting promo's, or the co. hiring new college students at 5-8K more/year than some of us that have been there a few years. And, yes, I do have a college degree also.

ttys,
karen