Ok, the questions you are asking, there is only one person you can actually do anything about. So what if you 'act as if' the passion is still there and DON'T take him for granted, don't expect him to do such and such and whatever....
You control you and make you happy and the R should hopefully start feeling again like it did when you first got back together.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
