Well, his key phrases are "emotional stability, peace and healthy relationship." He wants to get along and not have the emo roller coaster ride. I can have emotions, just need to deal w/them constructively, not destructively. Not sabotage the r. Trust him, GET ALONG. That's his LL!!!
1. Do something for myself when I have a freak out (what to call it? It's not an anxiety attack per se, but it is anxiety, and mind altering state). ie exercise, write, retreat, etc.
2. Eliminate assumptions and expectations.
3. Appreciate him for who he is. And SHOW it rather than just say it by getting along and being Bob Barkerish.
thanks for being here today ladies. you have really helped me! karen
