(Sweeping generalizations to follow) -- he thought you were in your cave so out of respect for that he didn't pursue you. You personalized it because that's not what YOU would do if a friend were off someplace working/studying but even when you try to explain that to him, he doesn't get it.
marsandvenusmarsandvenus
Remind me...have you read "The four agreements" by Ruiz?
Be impeccable with your word Don't take anything personally Don't make assumptions Always do your best
I recommend the book.
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
