I think it was a good idea to not contact MIL about H's recent behavior(s). Your friend gave some really good advise on the "coupledom" thing, I think we all can learn from this. As for me I am going to try and keep my "couple bubble" away from all sharp objects. LOL
Take care,
Halo
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It means you've decided to see beyond the imperfections.