Quote: In the alternative, maybe you should order them in hardback form and hit him over the head with them.
Hairdog
I'm pretty sure that the PM I ordered *is* hardcover...is that allowed??
Chris,
Thanks again for your comments. I guess, I'm not real sure how to intiate in a straightforward way (I love the story of the mongolian woman and the flag!!) Since H goes to bed with a book and candy, me coming in with a sexy nightie, or naked, or what ever, would go unnoticed. Even my attempts to kiss him are very awkward, and he doesn't make it easier. If we're walking together on the street, he gets very annoyed if I try to walk with him, god forbid hold his hand (he's always been like this, he will actually say 'Don't push me!! when I try to take his hand)
Cuddling on the coach, as I said, he squirms worse than my 4 yr old twins!
Yesterday, he was very friendly in the morning, but then distant for the rest of the day, so I think he's feeling a little overwhelmed.
Last night when I came to bed he was reading, I leaned over and asked if the book was really more interesting than me (yeah, I know, hinting again). He kind of laughed and said 'I think you better go to sleep'
We aint gonna get anywhere with this until we can sit down and have a talk about why he acts this way, and I'm not doing that 'till I've done some reading and can figure out how to do it without intimidating him.