I can understand that 0 to 100 (that's kilometers per hour right?) is difficult, so don't worry about hitting the gas too hard. You have a difficult task keeping the house clean and tidy with 4 kids, let alone the two of you adults. Long ago, I gave up on keeping things "my clean" and now just worry about keeping things orderly so I don't step on too many toys. Maybe you should have a cleaning service come in once a week and help you out?
Quote: He made a comment that the wife of one of our musician friends was just the same age as I am, and said 'just think, you could be the wife of a world famous musician right now'. I made some comment about how he (the musician) was not really my type, and left it at that.
Oh nooo... heap, you missed a good opportunity to stroke his ego! I can see him smiling if you had said something like, "I doubt that I'd be happier with him, and besides, I'm happy being with you."
Quote: Later on, as we were coming out of the concert, I whispered to H that 'I wouldn't mind being your wife if you made love to me once in a while'. H smiled and laughted it off.
Uhhh... that was a little ambiguous. You seem to be hinting a lot to your H. A more direct approach, such as 'when we get home, let's ML and I'll show you how much I like being with you.' OK, so that's something to work your courage up for. I just don't see the hinting working too well for you.
I hope your H is different tonight - in a good way.
