Quote: I have talked to H about me staying home, financially it’s not really possible. We bought a large single-family home a few years ago, and while we are not at all living outside our means, we do need both incomes.
Then you are living beyond your means, what if you get sick, then what.
Without mine, we could do alright in a smaller place, or apartment, and I do not want to give up our yard on the edge of the town forest with 4 small kids. So it’s not ideal, perhaps, our sitch, but it’s pretty good.
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Quote: I can not get a credit card, and there are a few mail order companies which wouldn’t sell to me, because I’m not a citizen.
What about a debit card?? Spends the same.
Quote: Last night he started playing the piano for a while. I came down and asked for a hug. He chuckled and asked 'why', but he was obviously happy that I did. I said I just needed a hug, and he just smiled and pulled out some music.
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Quote: Since he was sight reading, we were playing very slowly......playing clearly.
A AHA moment, so what can you do with this knowledge.
Quote: I never got the hug, but he did sit close to me on the couch, and this morning he did thank me for making breakfast. Small steps...
Do you know his LOVE LANGUAGES. If you can fill his LOVE TANK, you will get a lot more hugs.
Quote: I know he was turned on by me, but didn't understand what I was saying. It's as though he sees the world in black and white, and me in color...
Something comes to mind, where is that wonderful woman I married and who replaced her with this MONMY. Do you notice if you treat H like you treat kids.
