I actually sort of regretted confronting my H about the porn issue. He was able to twist my words and act as though I was just being prudish about porn or masturbation. I had to keep repeating that I wouldn't care if he did it if I was getting my share of the action. It's not really necessary to bring up the porn if you can just be strong in your request for more sex and passion.

"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver