I am noticing this pattern w that after ML my H will make a statement like "that's it for awhile," "this was too much," " we need a break," etc. Now, I'd like to say it's because I am such a vixen that I wear the poor guy out, but I'll stay with reality. It reminds me of the kinds of things you might say after indulging in big meal because you're feeling guilty. My H is a very diciplined person and has some self-punitive qualities and as much as I would like to analyze him and what this means( as a way of fixing it) I know by now this is not the right approach. These expressions are not indicative of his future behavior---our frequency has stayed consistent--- but I would like him to stop saying these things because it makes me feel that our LMing is in some way wrong. I am thinking I might overreact so I'd like to address it PM style the next time it happens. Any suggestions?