Willwin, you just crack me up....nope that nose sounds wrong dude!
WEll folks, the next day CJ sent me an e-mail expounding on our unresolved "talk". I replied, alas he deleted it without reading it (I'd inserted my replies and he thought it was just his old message below).
Basic thing is, he's telling me he IS interested, he IS attracted to me/turned on by me...but in his own words...the term "Show me the money" comes to mind. PRECISELY.
In my reply I explained that it's difficult for me to believe him now when he says that he didn't MEAN it when he said "I don't love you as a husband should love his wife"...when all of his actions confirm THIS sentiment, and not his currently voiced ones.
However he has said that he dropped the ball on following up with the doctor...We did have a "cuddle" yesterday morning which was nearly complete, but no less satisfying.
So we'll see how things go.
On the front of D and H...oh, boy folks. She found printouts of topless photos of a skanky ho who hung around a friend's camp (cottage, whatever) last summer. She knew he'd taken them...but he'd promised to wipe them off his computer and hadn't.
Things are very tense there and it's so hard as H has a reading disability and HATES to read. She's also very stubborn and rather bent on dramatic action, revenge fantasies and tit for tat. (She wanted to know how to wipe out his hard drive!)
So hard to know what to advise there...we KNOW it will take a lot to shake D up, I'm encouraging H's stated desire to become more independent by getting a job and not having her entire life 24/7 revolve around him.
