My H only recently starting being much more interested in ML. Even before we were married, it was often like pulling teeth. (How's that for getting you in the mood?)

After the first sep, H attacked me pretty much daily. Then that time of the month rolled around...and it stopped again... The this last sep happened, and, well...we ML pretty much the whole way through it. (How's that for confusing??) And it hasn't really slacked off.

H used to tell me ML "wasn't important" or that he just "wasn't one of those guys who needed it a lot."

Then...last night, he tells me that he actually would like to ML more often. (We've settled in at around 3x-4x a week, which is just fine for me. At one point we were 1x a month...and then there were months where there was nothing at all...)

Anyway, I know that was long-winded. But my point is, with my H, the more emotionally connected he feels, the safer he feels emotionally, the more he misses me...the more ML. It's highly tied into his emotional state, and how well things are between us in the M. Could this be the same for you?

I honestly thought my H had something wrong in his head, so that the ML department would never improve. Man, did he completely surprise me last night!

[color:"purple"]Nevanna[/color]