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Okay...so what about NOW???? With nearly TWO YEARS of changes, of getting along well, of respect, listening, validating, conquering my anxieties and perfectionism?

It's just pathetic.


Could you be trying to hard?

Maybe your needs scare him.You sound like a very passionate person.He may be afraid he can't please you.His past experiences performing with you does not mean he can still be that man in his mind.

He sounds like he has developed a phobia.

I wonder what would happen if you just told him all you wanted was for him to Hmmm how to put this?... give you a hand job.Nothing more.Just that. Tell him you just want his touch.Maybe that yours isn't good enough to get the job done.And you need his help. You could put it a bit more tastefully than I just did. But you get the idea.

Maybe you need to just ask for the appetizers for a while.

Some men let their fears get in the way of PI.

Later Friend.
Briget


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