Hi Shiny!

Welcome back!

I don't know what to say about the intimicy issue. I'm sure it is very frustrating for you.

I'm sure we've talked about this in the past. So, forgive me if I'm going over something we've already discussed.

But have you just not said anything and leapt on him?

Is is possible he's just so full of shame that he's placed you on such a high pedestal and thinks sex would be degrading to you?

Is it possible he's depressed?

Just throwing some thoughts out there.

Husband and I are only intimate once every two weeks. (I hope I don't sound like I'm bragging, I'm not...I'm frustrated too. )


So, I can feel some of your pain...

Have you read either Passionate Marriage or Michele's Sex-Starved Marriage?

Those are the 2 books they seem to recommend on the Sex-Starved Marriage thread.

In any case, welcome back. And I hope we can find a solution to this for you.

Hugs!

PIB