I mean that they will not be able to think of anything else other than this amazing change in their wives. I know about the worrying about what God thinks about my unfaithfulness. I just finally told God that I was going to slip sometimes but to not give up on me. He will always be here for us no matter what. Give it to God and if you take it back again just give it back until finally you will realize that you're not taking it back (the stress and worry). God completely understands.
