Okay so I see what your saying about patience and I know it but it is hard to do it. Last night we had a disagreement about him attending work parties alone and it kinda escalated. It was actually small and not that huge of deal. We even made up afterwards but those things pain me so because that was when the ow started. At work parties I was not at. And the worst part was I should have just let it go beause at the beginning of the fight he said he was not going any to anymore since he is the boss, but he would like to. So after we got inot he said I was drilling him and that he had already told me he was not going what did it matter what his reasons were. Ughh so he just called me at work about something else and things were fine but I am still so unsettled from this all. I just don't want him to leave again because he can't handle me. I know what I should do but now that he is home i am having a hard time getting goals. Thanks kml for your response. I will try to be patient I am so scared though.