I agree with Shiny!! Big steps more conifdent Pam and in the end your will have grown and poor David will still be treading water looking for someone to make him happy instead of looking within like you have. Dont worry about him though- he makes his own choices and has to live with them. You dont need that negativity as you continue to grow!! any chance you could stop communicating with him completly? This would be good for you I think LOL shay
