btw: The reference to D not being tough enough to handle J's training methods was because she basically handles her R's the way she trains. You are expected to toe the line and do things her way or the crap hits the fan!
But as long as you go along with her she can be fun to be around.
She always told me I owed her for all the training she did on D before I married him.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
