I saw the post on dbing your parents. I didn't realize there was the same sort of sitch in a way that I went through with my parents when i got married the first time and my mom didn't speak to me or allow anyone in the family to speak to me for like 6 or 7 years.
That left a lot of bitter feelings that I do feel we have resolved. We have talked a bit about my first marriage. She did not like my first H, said she got to liking him about the time I left him. He and I had been married like 15 years.
She said she liked D right from the beginning and she has been very supportive of my trying to repair this marriage. Which I certainly never expected from her.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
