Hi PIB,

I certainly hope I am accurate in my title and that is the journey I am on.

When I talk with D now, I don't feel anger or bitterness or even clingy anymore. I feel like a whole person just talking with a good friend.

I know that will end after the D is final but I like where the R is at right now with him.

I feel that I am more respectful of him and I also feel he is more respectful of me. It is a good feeling.

Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"