Quote: Imagine some weird horny nerd you knew in high school. Imagine the mind of that nerd in the body of an attractive 39 year old woman with large breasts and blonde hair. Say hello to MegaMojo.
Hello, MegaMojo. It is quite rational for "an attractive 39 year old woman with large breasts and blonde hair" to expect to get laid at least once a day if she wants it. On the other hand, if you've been where WB has been, in a prolonged state of sexual deprivation, you come to expect that it will never get better. All you have is hope for some change. When you actually get it, if it is more than you expected, it will feel like a miracle, even if it is less than you ultimately want. There is nothing irrational about any of that.
I am being presumptuous in speaking for WB. You can probably tell that I am speaking for myself. At this point in my marriage, all that I have is faith. If I didn't have it, I wouldn't be on this forum. I wouldn't be trying to change myself and my marriage. I don't believe in God, and I am as rational and skeptical a person as you will ever meet. But if I ever achieve the kind of love life that WB has achieved, I'm going to look for some kind of higher power to thank.
"If we will be quiet and ready enough, we shall find compensation in every disappointment." Henry David Thoreau
