Quote: So which of the two of us has the most important feelings? Is her desire for anal sex more or less important than my desire to avoid it? Are any of you seriously suggesting that I should completely disregard her feelings and desires?
This may be a case where you agree to disagree and attempt to find a work-around a solution. Neither feelings are most important... but they're both important enough to be "issues" to resolve. It sure would be nice to give the "wanting person" satisfaction while the 180-degree person is satisfied as well. *sigh*
How about you set up a piston-drive machine with a jelly PPA attached so your W can enjoy anal sex while you watch?
