Your point, "The BJ isn’t the issue; the issue is getting her to do something that she really doesn’t want to do. If she chooses not to do whatever it is, I’m unhappy that isn’t doing it, and presumably, she’s at least somewhat unhappy in the knowledge that she’s letting me down in a area that I’ve told her is important to me." -------------------
...is the point I was trying to make.
Mike - btw, let me know how GGB's W does. We'll call it SSM "networking".
