I think your goals sound very good!

Your mom I think is like mine in several ways. That doesn't mean we can't be their friends, just that we have to be aware of their shortcomings and our own.

I share some things with my mom but not the in depth details. I have a couple of friends that I do that with, but as a general rule it seems to work best with someone from the bb.

So I also e-mail Sage, Calystra, Zoo & Pattie some, plus chat on Yahoo with DBers. They just understand what I am trying to say, do and am going through better than my other friends.

So with my other friends I am putting the main focus on other areas of my life! Make sense?

BTW: I didn't see black and white thinking and I know for me when I don't feel well, my thinking is more negative and I am more emotional!

So today give PIB a break and start those positive thoughts working!

Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"