Well,

I sat down with Husband.

I told him I wanted to chat with him.

That I was struggling and didn't want him to feel like he had done anything wrong. And that I just needed him to be a friend and listen to me.

And I told him what I wrote above.

And told him that I was afraid that he and she belong together.

He just very matter of factly said that 'She was boring.'



The only fun thing she ever wanted to do was ski.

And that for only half an hour.



That's not who I've been picturing in my mind!

The person I've been picturing was an adventuress.

I feel much better. And he scored some major points with me and showed himself to be a good friend.

I'm off to eat dinner.

Hugs everyone!

PIB