I didn't realize it but it really does boil down to a basic trust issue, doesn't it? I always felt closer if Mr. Wonderful called me from where he was... hey, I'm a girl, and the fact that a man calls to tell me he's thinking of me does not escape unnoticed.
But the fact that your H told you this is a boundary for him is a biggie. And you handled it with dignity and grace and decorum. I'm so proud of you for choosing to see this from this POV.
Heck, I appreciate your attitude a whole lot. GO YOU!
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
Betsey 
