I have to tell you, I've been putting off re-reading my threads because I was concerned about the scabs being re-opened.
But knowing that you are reading them has helped me go back and re-read them...trying to look at them from your point of view.
So, thank you!!
Also, about going off Zoloft, I don't remember any issues other than the ones I posted about in my thread. I tried my best to post exactly what I was feeling and thinking...I figured even if my marriage failed, if nothing else, I'd show people what not to do. So, in the interest of being helpful, I tried to post EVERYHING!
Of course, I think I did take a longish hiatus from the BB once I was fired from my previous job. I remember a week of panic while trying to find a new job...and being afraid that my career on campus was over.
But as you know...I got this wonderful job where I am now! So, it all worked out and I came back to the board.
As for where my advice comes from. Well, from the first time I started reading your posts I felt such a close connection with you.
I wanted so badly to help you avoid all the mistakes I made.
I'm glad you have taken the time to read my threads and understand where my heart was in regard to the advice I gave you.