Well, when I originally posted that little blurb, I was talking about my calling him. Basically, I was doing all the work of maintaining our relationship...all he had to do was sit back and wait for me to call.
So, at that point, I was wanting him to pick up the phone and call me.
These days, it is different. Little things, like our agreement of not playing EQ (something he wants) unless we've worked out first (something I want!).
Oh, and speaking of working out, the other night, I finished my work out early and left him to finish his on his own. He came to me the next day and told me that he found it surprisingly hard to complete the work out on his own without me there, sharing the struggle. That's great! Now he understands why I value his company in my workouts! Plus what a great compliment to me...he missed me!