Quote: 9) If I ask him to do something, and he says no, along with some excuse/obstacle. Ignore the excuse/obstacle, recognize that he's trying to soften his no.
This one really hit me along with some of the others. But D does this and I STILL hadn't really realized it! That is why I don't always understand what he is really telling me.
I know none of this matters now for my R, but for some reason it seems important to cover some of this ground for myself.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
That is why I don't always understand what he is really telling me. 
