Hugging at least once a day - him hugging me - a reciprical hug - not a one sided hug.
Make love at least once a week - health permitting.
Willingness to listen to me when I ask for his attention - and his affection.
It is a start.
Hey, it sounds like a great start and completely reasonable. And, although things didn't go the way you planned (do they ever?) at least you are TALKING to each other. This is so important.
Hope this weekend is better than your last one, Hairdog